You’re Not Listening
What You're Missing and Why It Matters
by Kate Murphy
Recommended by Adam Grant and Rachel Botsman
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Recommended by 4 sources and appears in Most Recommended Books, Psychology, and Personal Development.
At work, we?re taught to lead the conversation.On social media, we shape our personal narratives.At parties, we talk over one another. So do our politicians.We?re not listening.And no one is listening to us.Despite living in a world where Technology, allows constant digital communication and opportunities to connect, it seems no one is really listen...
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Recommended by 4 sources and appears in Most Recommended Books, Psychology, and Personal Development.
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Adam Grant
Organizational psychologist; Wharton professor
“?What are you reading? I?m surprised by the number of people that ask me for book recommendations and tips to read more. So to kickoff each month, I thought I?d recommend four recent reads: @kathrynschulz @simonsinek @KateMurphyNews @JamesClear | If you’re like most people, you don’t listen as often or as well as you’d like. There’s no one better qualified than a talented journalist to introduce you to the right mindset and skillset—and this book does it with science and humor.”
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