The AllorNothing Marriage
How the Best Marriages Work
by Eli J Finkel
Recommended by Geoffrey Miller and Rand Fishkin
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Recommended by 2 sources and appears in Relationship, Marriage, and Psychology.
"After years of debate and inquiry, the key to a great marriage remained shrouded in mystery. Until now..."Carol Dweck, author of Mindset: The New Psychology of SuccessEli J. Finkel's insightful and groundbreaking investigation of marriage clearly shows that the best marriages today are better than the best marriages of earlier eras. Indeed, the...
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Recommended by 2 sources and appears in Relationship, Marriage, and Psychology.
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Geoffrey Miller
“A short thread about a powerful book, The All or Nothing Marriage, from @EliJFinkel: (which I recommend) /1 | Want a happier marriage Want to choose the right mate to marry There's a lot of good 'relationship science' full of useful insights and practical tips. This new book by @EliJFinkel is a great, easytoread review. Highly recommended.”
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