Best Marriage Books
Topic List89 books curated53 recommendations totalBooks on marriage recommended most by therapists and long-married couples — communication, conflict and intimacy. Plus the research behind what actually keeps partners together.
Where to start: Marriage Books recommended most often
Recommended books, ranked by how many of the 40 people behind this list recommended each one.
- 1Mating in Captivity6 recommendations · recommended by Brian Earp, Dan Engle and Dan Savage
- 2An American Marriage6 recommendations · recommended by Zoë Foster Blake, Michelle Obama and Bill Gates
- 3The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo5 recommendations · recommended by Steph Bohrer, Ali Abdaal and Jack Edwards
- 4The 5 Love Languages5 recommendations · recommended by Mark Manson, Patrick BetDavid and Jay Shetty
- 5We4 recommendations · recommended by Dr. Andrew Weil, Emma Watson and Andrew Weil

Unlocking Erotic Intelligence
Recommended by Brian Earp, Dan Engle, Dan Savage and 2 others

A Novel
Recommended by Zoë Foster Blake, Michelle Obama, Bill Gates and 3 others
By Tayari Jones, this is a close, emotionally precise novel about newlyweds whose lives are disrupted when one partner is arrested and imprisoned. The book’s strength is its patient attention to how everyday intimacy, career hopes, and social pressure fracture under legal catastrophe, delivered in sharp scenes and moral tension. Its main limitation is a slower middle that dwells on consequences and interior debate; readers seeking plot momentum or clear closure may find that deliberation repetitive or unsatisfying.

Recommended by Steph Bohrer, Ali Abdaal, Jack Edwards and 2 others
Aging and reclusive Hollywood movie icon Evelyn Hugo is finally ready to tell the truth about her glamorous and scandalous life. But when she chooses unknown magazine reporter Monique Grant for the job, no one is more astounded than Monique herself.
The Secret to Love that Lasts
Recommended by Mark Manson, Patrick BetDavid, Jay Shetty and 1 other

Understanding the Psychology of Romantic Love
Recommended by Dr. Andrew Weil, Emma Watson and Andrew Weil
Provides an illuminating explanation of the origins and meaning of romantic love and shows how a proper understanding of its psychological dynamics can revitalize our most important relationships.

A Manual for the Married and the Coupled Up
Recommended by Brené Brown and Brene Brown
Coupling up is complicatedDr. Harriet Lerners marriage rules are not. This marriage book provides couples therapy in a unique format perfect for todays world.

A Guide for Couples
Recommended by Whitney Cummings, Derek Sivers and Julie Rice
The New York Times bestselling guide to transforming an intimate relationship into a lasting source of love and companionship, now fully revised with a new forward and a brand new chapter.Getting the Love You Want has helped millions of people experience more satisfying…

The fiftieth Anniversary Edition of the groundbreaking international bestseller that has shown millions of readers how to achieve rich, productive lives by developing their hidden capacities for loveMost people are unable to love on the only level that truly matters: love that…
How the Best Marriages Work
Recommended by Geoffrey Miller and Rand Fishkin
"After years of debate and inquiry, the key to a great marriage remained shrouded in mystery. Until now..."Carol Dweck, author of Mindset: The New Psychology of SuccessEli J.

Upon its first publication twenty years ago, And The Band Played on was quickly recognized as a masterpiece of investigatve reporting.

Discover a Secretly Incredible Life in an Ordinary World
Recommended by Sarah Drew and Noah Kagan
Now a New York Times Bestseller!As a college student he spent 16 days in the Pacific Ocean with five guys and a crate of canned meat. As a father he took his kids on a world tour to eat ice cream with heads of state.

A Practical Guide to the Art of Relationship
Recommended by Dounia Tazi and Aubrey Marcus
In The Mastery of Love, don Miguel Ruiz illuminates the fearbased beliefs and assumptions that undermine love and lead to suffering and drama in our relationships.
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Iconic couples? therapist and bestselling author of Mating in Captivity Esther Perel returns to paperback with a provocative look at relationships through the lens of infidelity.An affair: it can rob a couple of their relationship, their happiness, their very identity.
The Five Keys to Mindful Loving
Recommended by Chris Messina
"Most people think of love as a feeling," says David Richo, "but love is not so much a feeling as a way of being present." In this book, Richo offers a fresh perspective on love and relationshipsone that focuses not on finding an ideal mate, but on becoming a more loving and…
The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs
Recommended by Dave Ramsey
A New York Times bestselling marriage book with more than one million copies sold!Based on over three decades of counseling, as well as scientific and biblical research, Dr.

A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert
Recommended by Mark Manson
Just as Masters and Johnson were pioneers in the study of human sexuality, so Dr. John Gottman has revolutionized the study of marriage.

Heralded by the New York Times and Time as the couples therapy with the highest rate of success, Emotionally Focused Therapy works because it views the love relationship as an attachment bond.This idea, once controversial, is now supported by science, and has become widely…

This celebrated, unforgettable first novel, shortlisted for the prestigious Women's Prize for Fiction and set in Nigeria, gives voice to both husband and wife as they tell the story of their marriageand the forces that threaten to tear it apart.Yejide and Akin have been married…

Making Your Relationship Work
Love takes work, but, when it comes to relationships, it pays to work smarter. Couple Skills, Second Edition, revised and updated from the therapistrecommended classic, will show you how to work smarter in your relationship.
How to Connect or Reconnect With Your Spouse, Grow Together, and Strengthen Your Marriage (Better Marriage Series)
How to connect or reconnect with your spouse, grow together and strengthen your marriage EVEN if you don't know where to start.Do you feel something is missing in your marriage Do you feel like roommates Are you worried about drifting apartDo you ever miss the connection you…
Sex Technique and Sexual Fulfillment in Christian Marriage
A classic for thirty years, Intended for Pleasure is an easytoread reference book that combines biblical teaching on love and marriage with the latest medical information on sex and sexuality.
How 15 Minutes a Day Will Help You Stay in Love
What I Learned from Real Women on Five Continents About Building a Happy Marriage
Everyone tells you marriage is hard, but no one tells you what to do about it.At age thirtyfour, Jo Piazza got her romanticcomedy ending when she met the man of her dreams on a boat in the Galpagos Islands and was engaged three months later.

Boosting Your Marriage Libido
Bring the spark back into your bedroom and your marriage with gutsy and effective advice from bestselling author Michele WeinerDavis.It is estimated that one of every three married couples struggles with problems associated with mismatched sexual desire.
One Woman's Worldwide Search for the Secrets of a Great Marriage

Modern Relationship Advice from the Wisdom of Arranged Marriages
First Comes Marriage reads like a practical advice manual built from interviews with more than three hundred women in arranged marriages. It offers concrete, repeatable tactics meant to move casual dating toward commitment—rules, conversation scripts, and rituals pulled from centuries-old matchmaking practices. what works best is a set of pragmatic, culturally rooted heuristics for people who want clearer signals and faster commitment. The main limitation is heavy anecdotal reliance and a prescriptive tone that leans on traditional gender roles, which will feel narrow or dated to some readers.
One of the greatest and bestloved spokesmen for the Catholic Faith here sets out the Church's beautiful understanding of marriage in his trademark clear and entertaining style.
Ten RelationshipSaving Truths
Change the relationship you have into the one you want. Welcome to the Relationship Revolution! "Making Marriage Simple "is the accessible, essential road map to building a strong marriage in the modern world.
Facing the Complexities of Commitment with the Wisdom of God
Undressing the truth about sex, intimacy and lifelong love
"Now the man and his wife were both naked, but they felt no shame." (Genesis 2:25)Imagine a marriage with complete intimacy, vulnerability, transparency and trust. Imagine a marriage rooted in faith, friendship and mutual fulfillment.
Letters to a Young Bride
What to do when the honeymoon is over. This remarkable book shows couples how to transform stumbling blocks in their marriage into stepping stones of love. It reveals the beauty and importance of high ideals and offers practical tips to help couples live up to those ideals daily.
The Journey to CoCommitment
Here is a powerful new program that can clear away the unconscious agreements patterns that undermine even your best intentions.
Answers to Your Honest Questions about Catholic Teaching
The author, a diocesan director of marriage and family life, answers the questions about human sexuality and marriage that he always encounters in the numerous Adult, audiences he addresses.
A Catholic Guide to ToeCurling, MindBlowing, Infallible Loving
Common wisdom portrays sex and church to be at odds, yet studies show that Catholics have better sex, and more often. This witty, frank, and refreshingly orthodox book draws from the beautiful truths of Catholic teaching to show people of all faiths about rich and satisfying…
Critical Questions and Answers
What If God Designed Marriage to Make Us Holy More Than to Make Us Happy
Happy is good. Holy is better.Your marriage is more than a sacred covenant with another person. It is a spiritual discipline designed to help you know God better, trust him more fully, and love him more deeply.
Stormie Omartian's bestselling The Power of a Praying series (more than 23 million copies sold) is rereleased with fresh new covers and new material to reach a stillgrowing market of readers eager to discover the power of prayer for their lives.Stormie joyfully inspires you to…
A Parable of Permanence
The chasm between the biblical vision of marriage and the common human conception isand has always beengargantuan. Reflecting on over forty years of matrimony, John Piper exalts the biblical meaning of marriage over its emotion, exhorting couples to keep their covenant as a…
Learn when to say yes and when to say no to your spouse to make the most of your marriage.Only when you and your mate know and respect each other's needs, choices, and freedom can you give yourselves freely and lovingly to one another.Boundaries are the "property lines" that…
It's Impossible to Be Spiritually Mature, While Remaining Emotionally Immature
In this revised bestselling book, Peter Scazzero outlines a roadmap for discipleship with Jesus that is powerfully transformative.
The Surprisingly Simple Skill Behind Extraordinary Relationships
What if making one tweak to your daytoday conversations could immediately improve every relationship in your life In this 3hour, conversational read, you'll discover the whats, whys, and hows of one of the most valuable (yet surprisingly littleknown) communication…
A Divorce Lawyer's Guide to Staying Together
Hardhitting divorce lawyer James Sexton shares his insights and wisdom from the front lines of divorce to keep you out of his office and improve your relationship.If You're in My Office, It's Already Too Late. James Sexton knows this.
Awaken the Passion in Your Relationship
Many couples begin marital counseling with Dr. David Schnarch with their sex lives in shambles, wondering what's wrong with them, considering divorce. One partner will complain that the other doesn't desire him, the other complains that she's married to a sex maniac.
Gianna Beretta was over 30 years old when she met Pietro Molla, and their relationship quickly moved from acquaintance to friendship to passionate commitment.

A Liberating Approach to Finding God's Will
A Liberating Approach to Finding God's Will or How to Make a Decision Without Dreams, Visions, Fleeces, Impressions, Open Doors, Random Bible Verses, Casting Lots, Liver Shivers, Writing in the Sky, etc.Hyperspiritual approaches to finding God's will don't work.

The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs
Based upon Ephesians 5:33 and extensive biblical and psychological research, Dr. Emerson Eggerichs reveals the power of unconditional love and unconditional respect and how husbands and wives can reap the benefits of marriage that God intended.
How to Have Ridiculously Great Sex in a LongLasting Relationship
Winner, Nautilus Gold Book Award for Relationships and Communication.Can sex survive monogamy Yes, once you understand how sexual emotions really work.This awardwinning, paradigmshifting guide turns traditional sex therapy insideout to reveal the hidden rules for great sex.
Resolving the Heart of Conflict
NEW EDITION, REVISED AND UPDATED Leadership and Self Deception, The Arbinger Institute's first book, The Anatomy of Peace has become a worldwide phenomenon not because of a media blitz, movie tie in, or celebrity endorsement, but because readers have enthusiastically recommended…

Eight Loving Actions That Will Transform Your Marriage
Why Talking Is Not Enough, written by Susan Page, author of the acclaimed bestseller If I'm So Wonderful, Why Am I Still Single presents a novel relationship strategy based on subtle, powerful changes in your own actions.

How Understanding Your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship
"What the heck is my partner thinking" is a common refrain in romantic relationships, and with good reason. Every person is wired for love differently, with different habits, needs, and reactions to conflict.
Marriage in Light of Eternity
Marriage is great, but it's not forever. It's until death do us part. Then come eternal rewards or regrets depending on how we spent our lives.

The acclaimed author of The Book of the Dun Cow moves from his role as master storyteller to that of counselor and husband in this extraordinary look at the makings of a happy, successful marriage.
A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women
Finally. You Can Understand Her! Women: complicated and impossible to understand Do you love and want to please the woman in your life, but just can't seem to figure her
What You Need to Know About the Inner Lives of Men (Christian Softcover Originals)

Building an AffairProof Marriage
In the classic bestseller His Needs, Her Needs, Willard F. Harley, Jr., identifies the ten most vital needs of men and women and shows husbands and wives how to satisfy those needs in their spouses.
The Complete Guide to Restoring Trust in Your Relationship
A guide to restoring trust in broken relationships from a renowed couple's therapist. Is my relationship worth savingWill the trust ever come backHow can things be good between us againWhether broken trust is due to daily dishonesties, a monumental betrayal, or even a history of…
Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships
Passionate Marriage is recognized as the pioneering book on intimate human relationships. With a new preface by the author, this updated edition explores the ways we can keep passion alive and even reach the height of sexual and emotional fulfillment later in life.
Uncovering the Secrets of Sexual Intimacy in Marriage
With his characteristic warmth and humor, Dr. Kevin Leman offers a practical guide to sex according to God's plan. This frank and practical book is a perfect resource for married and engaged couples. Dr.

America's Love Lab Experts Share Their Strategies for Strengthening Your Relationship
A Dialectical Behavior Therapy Guide to Finding Peace, Intimacy, and Validation
A Play (Scribner Classics)
George, a disillusioned academic, and Martha, his caustic wife, have just come home from a faculty party. When a handsome young professor and his mousy wife stop by for a nightcap, an innocent night of fun and games quickly turns dark and dangerous.
And How You Can Make Yours Last
Psychologist John Gottman has spent twenty years studying what makes a marriage last. Now you can use his tested methods to evaluate, strengthen, and maintain your own longterm relationship.This breakthrough book guides you through a series of selftests designed to help you…
The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life
52 SelfGuided Exercises to Deepen Your Relationship
Why Do I Love You
"The longing for a destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life" we are told at the outset of Alain de Botton's On Love, a hip, charming, and devastatingly witty rumination on the thrills and pitfalls of romantic love.
How Anxious Attachment Can Make You Feel Jealous, Needy, and Worried and What You Can Do About It
Has your romantic partner called you clingy, insecure, desperate, or jealous No one wants to admit that they possess these qualities; but if you find yourself constantly on the alert, anxious, or worried when it comes to your significant other, you may suffer from anxious…
Real Help for Desperate Hearts in Difficult Marriages
30 Minutes a Week to the Relationship You've Always Wanted
25 Practices for Couples to Enhance Intimacy, Nurture Closeness, and Grow a Deeper Connection
Feel disconnected from your spouse or partner Struggle to keep your relationship fresh Worried that everything will end in heartbreak It's easy to fall in love.
Seven Questions to Ask Before and After You Marry

The Beauty of Sexual Love
This updated and expanded edition gives a fresh informative edge to an already definitive book. New sections discuss "sex after sixty" and five reasons why God created sex, all supported by the very latest findings in the fields of medicine and Sociology,.
The Surprising Secrets of Happy Couples and What They Reveal About Creating a New Normal in Your Relationship
A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships
Sacred Sex for the TwentyFirst Century
If you think sexual and spiritual bliss can't be found in today's fastpaced world, you haven't experienced Urban Tantra.
Recommended Marriage Books by Mark Manson
Mark Manson recommends 5 books on this list. See all book recommendations by Mark Manson
Recommended Marriage Books by Brian Earp
Brian Earp recommends 2 books on this list. See all book recommendations by Brian Earp
Recommended Marriage Books by Chris Messina
Chris Messina recommends 2 books on this list. See all book recommendations by Chris Messina
Marriage Books: common questions
- What are the most recommended marriage books?
- Mating in Captivity, An American Marriage and The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo are the most recommended marriage books on BookMentions, ranked by how many people recommended them.
- Who recommends marriage books?
- Mark Manson, Brian Earp, Chris Messina and Ali Abdaal are among the people who recommend books on this list. Each name links to their full set of book recommendations.
- Which of these marriage books should I read first?
- Mating in Captivity is the most recommended here with 6 recommendations, which makes it the safest place to start.
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- Mark MansonBooks recommended by Mark: 5
- Brian EarpBooks recommended by Brian: 2
- Chris MessinaBooks recommended by Chris: 2
- Ali AbdaalBooks recommended by Ali: 1
- Andrew WeilBooks recommended by Andrew: 1
- Aubrey MarcusBooks recommended by Aubrey: 1
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