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Negotiating the Impossible
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Negotiating the Impossible

How to Break Deadlocks and Resolve Ugly Conflicts (without Money or Muscle)

by Deepak Malhotra

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By farandaway, the best advice I’ve ever received on negotiating came from @Prof_Malhotra. His book “Negotiating the Impossible” is now in paperback and is a bible for creating winwin deals. It is a mustread! | If you want to be a world class big deal negotiator, make sure you pick up “Negotiating The Impossible” by @Prof_Malhotra, best book on the subject by far.

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By farandaway, the best advice I’ve ever received on negotiating came from @Prof_Malhotra. His book “Negotiating the Impossible” is now in paperback and is a bible for creating winwin deals. It is a mustread! | If you want to be a world class big deal negotiator, make sure you pick up “Negotiating The Impossible” by @Prof_Malhotra, best book on the subject by far.

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By farandaway, the best advice I’ve ever received on negotiating came from @Prof_Malhotra. His book “Negotiating the Impossible” is now in paperback and is a bible for creating winwin deals. It is a mustread! | If you want to be a world class big deal negotiator, make sure you pick up “Negotiating The Impossible” by @Prof_Malhotra, best book on the subject by far.

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Recommended by 5 notable people, including Patrick O'Shaughnessy and Vinod Khosla

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Reading Profile

Difficulty:hard
Themes:leverage vs legitimacycreative value-creation vs zero-sum bargaining

Should I read this?

Starts as a pragmatic manual for negotiating seemingly hopeless situations, driven by clear tactics and many illustrative stories. What works best is concrete, usable moves—reframing options, changing perceptions of leverage, and creative ways to reopen talks. The book leans heavily on case narratives, which make ideas memorable but also repeat similar lessons in multiple chapters. If you want hands-on templates or tightly argued theoretical models, you'll find it less satisfying; it lacks step-by-step exercises.

Read this if...

  • corporate dealmaker trying to revive a stalled merger negotiation — needs fresh tactics to break an impasse and reopen dialogue with hostile counterparts.
  • nonprofit program manager mediating resource conflicts with limited leverage — looking for ways to reframe options and create legitimate alternative solutions without more power.
  • founder stuck in a partnership or investor stalemate — wants practical means to shift perceptions and negotiate durable rather than purely transactional agreements.

Skip this if...

  • you'll likely put it down when the same anecdotal pattern repeats and you want new tools rather than another case study; the midbook cycle of similar stories is the common dropout point.
  • annoying if you prefer formal theory, dense citations, or granular models — this is pragmatic and example-driven, not academic.
  • annoying if you want hands-on exercises or worksheets — the book provides tactics and stories but lacks hands-on exercises and templates.

Negotiating the Impossible guides readers through deadlock with practical advice, and shares stories of successful negotiation to make the hopeless feel hopeful!Some negotiations are easy. Others are more difficult. And then there are situations that seem completely hopeless. Conflict is escalating, people are getting aggressive, and no one is will...

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Reading Specifications

Difficulty:hard

Themes:
leverage vs legitimacycreative value-creation vs zero-sum bargainingshort-term concessions vs durable agreements

Audience Fit

Recommended for:
  • corporate dealmaker trying to revive a stalled merger negotiation — needs fresh tactics to break an impasse and reopen dialogue with hostile counterparts.
  • nonprofit program manager mediating resource conflicts with limited leverage — looking for ways to reframe options and create legitimate alternative solutions without more power.
  • founder stuck in a partnership or investor stalemate — wants practical means to shift perceptions and negotiate durable rather than purely transactional agreements.
Not ideal if you want:
  • you'll likely put it down when the same anecdotal pattern repeats and you want new tools rather than another case study; the midbook cycle of similar stories is the common dropout point.
  • annoying if you prefer formal theory, dense citations, or granular models — this is pragmatic and example-driven, not academic.
  • annoying if you want hands-on exercises or worksheets — the book provides tactics and stories but lacks hands-on exercises and templates.

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Key themes

leverage vs legitimacycreative value-creation vs zero-sum bargainingshort-term concessions vs durable agreementstransparency vs strategic ambiguityethical limits vs pressure tactics

Why recommended

Recommended by 7 sources and appears in Negotiation, Most Recommended Books, and Management.

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By farandaway, the best advice I’ve ever received on negotiating came from @Prof_Malhotra. His book “Negotiating the Impossible” is now in paperback and is a bible for creating winwin deals. It is a mustread! | If you want to be a world class big deal negotiator, make sure you pick up “Negotiating The Impossible” by @Prof_Malhotra, best book on the subject by far.
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