Why Children Turn Out the Way They Do
by Judith Rich Harris
Recommended by James Clear and Steven Pinker
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See customer reviews on Amazon →Starts as a contrarian pop-psych polemic: Judith Rich Harris challenges the common belief that parents shape children's intelligence and personality, leaning on genetics, ethnography, and child psychology to make her case. Reading feels brisk and argumentative, with memorable counterexamples and a steady drumbeat of evidence-minded claims. What works best is a sharp reframe of where influence might lie; the main limitation is a singling-out tone and repetition—readers seeking balanced nuance or practical parenting steps may find it unsatisfying.
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"A grandmother from New Jersey uses genetics, ethnography, and child psychology to refute the dogma that parents shape their children's intelligence and personality." - Steven Pinker
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