
The Myth of the Spoiled Child
Coddled Kids, Helicopter Parents, and Other Phony Crises
by Alfie Kohn
Recommended by David Heinemeier Hansson and Heinemeier Hansson
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Recommended by 2 sources and appears in Most Recommended Books and Nonfiction.
A prominent and esteemed critic challenges widely held beliefs about children and parenting, revealing that underlying each myth is a deeply conservative ideology that is, ironically, often adopted by liberal parents. Somehow a set of deeply conservative assumptions about children—what they’re like and how they should be raised—ha...
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Recommended by 2 sources and appears in Most Recommended Books and Nonfiction.
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David Heinemeier Hansson
“There’s also a great book called The Myth of the Spoiled Child, which is even more specific about nurturing and supporting kids and so forth. That’s been very inspirational.”
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